"topic of the day was life lessons. i wonder myself, why do people love to lead a rich fantasy life? why do people love to lie in order to be well-liked or popular? what happens if their lies backfired in their faces and people learnt the absolute truth? can they still hold their heads up high even after knowing that the truth is already out in the open? why do people love to create something which is totally bizzare or not even there? is it due to low self-esteem or is it because they are purely sick in the brain? i guess what they claim to be all these while has been true indeed, they are being nothing but their true selves - boastful and rotten...subhanallah..."
I decided to quote from sista Lyana posting..Decided to answer here coz I dun think enuff space to post at her commentary box..furthermore it is something interesting to highlight to others..I shall answer it part by part..it's juz solely what I thought,might be wrong to others but right to me and vice versa though..to each his own..coz different people have different sets of minds...the good ones we kept in our mind and the bad ones we discard them off..
WHY DO PPLE LUV 2 LEAD A RICH FANTASY LIFE?
Life is a matter of choices..good,bad,neutral or no life at all..we are given choices to choose a way to lead our life,either respectably,despicably ..etc. All of us always dreamt of leading a rich and famous life..its natural..can't run away from such dreams and fantasies...but there are reasons why..we always think that a rich life brings a thousand happiness whereby one can achieve whatever they wanted...because they can simply afford any stuffs,juz name the price..some wanted to be pampered..to get luxurious stuffs for the thrill of wearing,testing or enjoying it...but little did they know that such stuffs do not last for eternity..maybe they knew..but they'd rather enjoy now and think how to avoid suffering later..in which,mostly,you can never avoid the aftermath of suffering when you became poor..from riches to rags...We can't abolish such people with such thoughts because this world will be imbalanced..there must be people who are straight and those who love to lead a topsy-turvy life..what can we do with such people? Advice them..if me, up to 3 times or maybe until I almost gave up...if he/she still persists to pursue a rich fantasy life..go ahead..coz one fine day,they will wake up to realise the mistakes and hopefully they can still have the change to change for the better..I am no better but I hope I can avoid such category as much as I can...
Why do people love to lie in order to be well-liked or popular? What happens if their lies backfired in their faces and people learnt the absolute truth? Can they still hold their heads up high even after knowing that the truth is already out in the open?
To be popular is something cool to some..a burden to others and a nuisance to those who dun really bother about it..there can be many reasons to all the WHY questions...why lie to gain popularity? coz the truth hurts and it is hard to face the truth..u have to swallow it..like a rat poison..take it or leave it..so rather being true..to lie is another alternatif..nothing is true in this world..the true ones sinks at the bottom...seldom above those who lie their way true...these people to me..are aware of the consequences of the lies they have committed..let's juz say they know what they are doing and have their own speeches to reason out why they lie...there's always such thing as white lie...i dunno who created it...Popularity means attention and dun you love it when people gave u a lot of attention? central of attraction makes someone feels flattered at times..feel wanted / needed..so some of these people juz luv that feeling so to them lying is no harm in exchange of the nice feeling they get when they became popular..the question whether they can hold their heads up high or not..ehheeh...like the malay saying, "muka tebal mcm kulit gajah" - face thick as elephant skin..they will still do it..for all they care even if pple ard them are mocking...to them..that is their own life..they rule themselves and to hell with those who dun put food on their plates...they dun really bother about pple ard them..in other words..but we can't really expect these pple to hide their faces once the truth is out,isn't it? when it's out, it's outlah..no big deal...things happened..face it..live with it..time will heal and if they repent..good then..otherwise..pray for the best in their lives then...
why do people love to create something which is totally bizzare or not even there? is it due to low self-esteem or is it because they are purely sick in the brain?b>
It should be low self-esteem,have problems(social,family,mental etc) and needed help..not from shrinks but from people who can understand their plights and able to listen to them..they are not sick in the brain coz if they do..u can expect to see a knife in their hands/pockets waiting to skin U..ehehehe.. *evil grin* Imaginative is another word..i dun really know if sis lyana meant these questions on certain pple she had known previously or juz outta concern about what she saw...but I acknowledge that I once love to be in my own imaginative world..I think that I am psychotic..crazy..imagining things that seems absurd to others..it doesn't help much..until I met someone whom slowly changed my mindset..lil bit...i pick up and brace up myself..why i became like dat with low self esteem? because I failed in my life to do proud in my education once..I had to repeat a whole semestral year..I have never failed in my life..but when I did..I can't take it and since then I hated myself...i felt useless...thank goodness he came to my life..sis lyana..I have answered it in my own context..might be wrong or right...pple learn from mistakes..they can act funny with us,hurt us or make us weep...but we can be a good one by remembering not their mistakes but the good old times they had with us...let bygones be bygones..start a new life afresh..these pple u think they are sick in the brain...actually they are not...they just needed some help..counselling in life..to brace up..wake up from their own sanctuary and live in a community as a better person..a person who appreciates another being for being there and truthful to them... tu jek i leh pikir... yang baik datang dari Allah, yang buruk berpunca dari kita...wallahualam..
