Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Path Less Travelled

Back to blogging when all the rave is about Facebooking. Decided to move back here as I believe my Facebook have too many negative people within it.

If you are able to read this, it's a thank you from me for being part of learning journey in life,being a friend,a sister,a brother,a family to me..for you're one of the few trusted ones around that know me for who I am,not what others perceive me as.

I had enough of tolerating some group of people,be it friends or those that I form kinship in my new phase of life. Had enough of people making use of my kindness and sincerity to their own benefits and not much is left to reciprocate. Worst still, these people are elders that should show great example to young ones like me, but sad to say they proved otherwise.

As for my new update,for friends and families out there who are just informed of this new phase of mine, I've been happily married to a loving and ever supportive husband for 1 yr and 8mths ongoing (thank God)..blessed with a baby boy,Audi Muzhaffar, turning 7months soon in a week's time.

Blessed I am to have my hubby as a partner. Let me share what I had told him from beginning : " We're a team, you & I, we plan together,work together and nothing should be hidden from each other. Only then we can aim for happiness. Transparency & trust is key in our happy family".

There were hiccups along the way when we felt like having endless pillow fights and wall facing moments,there were times we laughed as if the world surrounds just us and there were times we both just enjoy silent moments as the day passed by..we didn't aim for total perfection nor total disaster. What we aim is at the end of the day, we have each other,now with Audi, to face the future together,as a TEAM, a FAMILY.

I see things differently and am glad my husband is embracing it too. Next milestone after a family is to get the golden scroll,that I had been waiting for,put on hold to start a family first. Thank you, Hubby, for honouring the promise you made never to stop me from life long education..my passion that you embrace along with my antics. Thank you for willingly to be a PT-mummy to Audi when I soon absent for night classes. I promise to excel as I always do. For Audi, you & me.

Will update more soon..

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